Should We Do A First Look?

Let’s be real—your wedding day is one of the best days of your life, but it can also be pretty overwhelming. That’s why I always recommend to consider doing a first look. It gives you a chance to have a private, intimate moment with your partner before the ceremony, away from the eyes of all your guests. You’ll get a few minutes to escape the hustle and bustle, and just be together, soaking in all the love and excitement.

I totally get that you might want your partner to see you for the first time as you walk down the aisle—after all, who doesn’t want that emotional reaction? But picture this: standing up there in front of a crowd, it’s easy to get distracted by all the faces watching you, and that can take away from the moment.

What I’ve found is that a first look creates a more comfortable space for you to truly feel those emotions. When it’s just the two of you (and your third wheel — me), there’s no pressure. You can cry, laugh, hug, kiss, and really take in the moment without worrying about a timeline or being on display. Plus, it’s one of the only times during the day when you’ll actually get to be alone together, without feeling rushed.

Another bonus of doing a first look on your wedding day is that it can be a game changer for your timeline. It allows you to take care of some of the most important photos before the ceremony even begins. After the first look, we can capture your couple's portraits, bridal party shots, and even some family photos. This means that once the ceremony is over, you can skip the long photo sessions and head straight into celebrating with your guests. It’s a great way to ease the pressure and ensure that you have more time to relax and enjoy your day.

Don’t get me wrong, I love first looks, but this is your day, and I want you to make the choice that feels right for you. If keeping things traditional is what you prefer, that’s wonderful! I’m not here to push anything on you, just to make sure you have all the information you need to make the best decision for your big day.